Formal vs. Casual Japanese: When to Use Each Style

Japanese is a language rich in politeness levels, and choosing the right style for the situation is essential. Using overly casual Japanese at work or too formal speech with friends can feel awkward. Let’s break down when and how to use formal vs. casual Japanese!

1. What is Formal vs. Casual Japanese?

Formal Japanese, often referred to as 敬θͺž (keigo), is used in professional, academic, or polite settings. Casual Japanese is more relaxed and used among friends, family, and close acquaintances.

πŸ”Ή Fun Fact: Japanese has multiple levels of politeness, but the two main distinctions are 敬θͺž (keigo - polite speech) and タパ口 (tameguchi - casual speech).

2. When to Use Formal Japanese (Keigo)

Formal Japanese is essential in business, customer service, and when speaking to elders or strangers. It consists of:

  • ていねいθͺž (Teineigo) – Polite language used in most social and professional settings.

  • ε°Šζ•¬θͺž (Sonkeigo) – Respectful speech used to show deference to superiors.

  • 謙譲θͺž (Kenjougo) – Humble speech used to lower oneself in conversations.

Examples of Formal Speech:

English

Casual

Formal

Thanks!

γ‚γ‚ŠγŒγ¨γ† (Arigatou)

γ‚γ‚ŠγŒγ¨γ†γ”γ–γ„γΎγ™ (Arigatou gozaimasu)

Excuse me

ごめん (Gomen)

すみません (Sumimasen)

I will go

葌く (Iku)

ε‚γ‚ŠγΎγ™ (Mairimasu)

Please wait

待って (Matte)

γŠεΎ…γ‘γγ γ•γ„ (O-machi kudasai)

πŸ”Ή Tip: If you’re unsure which level to use, default to ていねいθͺž (Teineigo)β€”it’s polite but not overly formal!

3. When to Use Casual Japanese (Tameguchi)

Casual speech is used with friends, family, classmates, and close colleagues. It is more relaxed, often omitting particles and polite endings.

Examples of Casual Speech:

English

Formal

Casual

How are you?

γŠε…ƒζ°—γ§γ™γ‹οΌŸ(O-genki desu ka?)

ε…ƒζ°—οΌŸ (Genki?)

Let’s eat!

γ„γŸγ γγΎγ™ (Itadakimasu)

ι£ŸγΉγ‚ˆγ†οΌ (Tabeyou!)

Are you free?

γŠζ™‚ι–“γ‚γ‚ŠγΎγ™γ‹οΌŸ (O-jikan arimasu ka?)

ζš‡οΌŸ (Hima?)

See you later

倱瀼します (Shitsurei shimasu)

またね! (Mata ne!)

πŸ”Ή Cultural Note: Japanese speakers may switch between formal and casual language based on the setting, even within the same conversation!

4. Mixing Formal and Casual Speech

It’s common to use a mix of formal and casual speech depending on the relationship and setting. Here are some cases where switching is normal:

  • At work: Use polite Japanese with your boss, but casual speech with coworkers you’re close to.

  • At school: Use polite speech with teachers but casual speech with friends.

  • In emails: Start formal, but if the person responds casually, you may adjust accordingly.

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